Jessie Jackson Jr. to Resolve His Divorce Outside of the Public Eye? ~by ViperAdvocate

Civil Rights advocate Jesse Jackson Jr. is apparently going through a divorce in Chicago.  Fortunately, former Rep. Jesse Jackson Jr. and Sandi Jackson agreed to try to mediate the dispute.  If successful, mediation may deprive the public of a sensational trial.  In the absence of mediation being successful, there is a chance there may be evidence of extramarital affairs perhaps on the part of both parties. Mediation may allow a confidential resolution of all of the issues including custody of the couple’s two children, alimony and the distribution of property.

Jackson has been paying Sandi Jackson $1,200-a-month in alimony.  While mediation can be a good thing, it may deprive the public of some real entertainment.   divorce case .

Post Divorce Suggestions

I have authored a new article posted on Legal Pub. It can be found at http://legalpublication.blogspot.com/

In essence, if you want to gain control of your life you need to learn to conquer your hostility directed at your ex. If you continue to get angry reacting to your ex's words or actions, then you perpetuate the empowerment of your ex. You only become free when your ex can no longer ruin your day. Read the article and think about it.

Trouble In California Paradise?

Trouble in California paradise? In 1986, Maria Shriver, and Arnold Schwarzenegger lawfully wed. Now 25 years later they have apparently parted ways. The former Governor is a hardcore Republican while Maria was part of the Kennedy clan. A joint statement read that after "a time of great personal and professional transition for each of us," the couple decided to separate. However, behind the scenes it is known that Maria moved out of the couple's L.A. mansion months ago. Maria apparently has been unhappy in her marriage for years. Allegedly, Arnold's ego is often out of control ego.

The couples problems are not all that different from average folks. Arnold's drive to return to his career (as an actor) has apparently left Maria feeling distant and their relationship "unstable." Despite the unhappiness, Maria apparently lingered in the relationship because of her religious views which look with disfavor upon divorce. Let's hope they make the best decision for themselves and their families.

Update 5-19-11: Apparently Arnold fathered a 13 year old son with the housekeeper. Given the child's smile, one suspects Shriver has had a strong indices of suspicion for many years. Attorney Laura Wasser is apparently advising Shriver.

Lashandra Armstrong Is Reminiscent of Susan Smith Tragedy

Legal Pub out scooped me again! http://legalpublication.blogspot.com/ The Lashandra Armstrong case is reminiscent of the Susan Smith tragedy. Both can be rationalized as being the result of "postpartum syndrome." But both are also a good example of why domestic relationships are so potentially volatile. It is not just men who commit violence. It is not just a war of men against women as some feminists have theorized. It is a real problem that needs a solution because the system is broke for everyone other than perhaps the divorce lawyers. The laws and presumption dealing with family law need to be revised for the better. Having the most aggressive attorneys is not always a good thing. Fear of losing everything can result in irrational behavior. But as long as there are strong financial interests in keeping the status quo, it is unlikely that significant change will be effectuated any time soon. Nevertheless, the small voices in the distance calling for reform grow louder each day.

Guest Article On Prince's Legal Fees

As a guest on Legal Pub, I wrote an article on Prince's legal fees. It seemed appropriate because Prince's dispute with his lawyer involves fees incurred in the process of representing the singer in several legal matters including "divorce." While I don't know know Prince or the lawyers involved, I can imagine it is not pleasant no matter which side you are on in a fee dispute.

If you thought divorce was vicious and nasty, just imagine two hungry alley cats fighting over a can of tuna. Then magnify that a couple of times and you may my idea of what a fee dispute with a divorce lawyer might look like before all is said and done. For those interested: http://legalpublication.blogspot.com/2011/03/prince-with-legal-fee-dispute-by-viper.html

Christina Aguilera Calls It Quits After Five Years Of Bliss?

Divorce is common, especially in Hollywood. So it was no real surprise when Christina Aguilera announced she was divorcing her husband of five years. Her husband, music executive Jordan Bratman, will likely take the divorce like a man, sans the pain in his wallet experienced by the "typical man."

PEOPLE, published the reasons why Christina sought the divorce. In essence, it is the same old she believes it will benefit her family in the end. "Things were so unhealthy and unhappy for both Jordan and me, I knew I had to end it." said Aguilera. And what about their two-year-old son, Max? "When you're unhappy in your marriage, your children are the ones who suffer," she says. "That's the last thing I wanted for my son." Come on Christina, can't you come up with a more original line? This is text book 101 reason to explain why you are divorcing.

Why not share the real reason for the split or come right out and deny the speculation that you are involved with Matthew Rutler? Divorce is bitter sweet and some times vicious. While dissolution of marriage stimulates the legal economy, for once it would be refreshing for someone to come out publicly as to the real reason that they are seeking a dissolution.

Alcohol Won't Help Save A Marriage

Alcohol consumption won't save a marriage. Unfortunately, when times get tough, the tough get going... out to the bars. If there was any hope in saving the relationship before the drinking, it soon evaporates in a drunken fog.

Legal Pub has an article on Four Loko, a super charged alcohol drink popular among young adults. LINK. It is worth your time to review the article. If your kids are binge drinking, get them help. If you are drinking and driving or simply drinking too much, get help for your self.

Keep in mind, "married men don't live longer, it just seems that way... "

that is really true if it's a bad marriage.